Fireside ~ Conversations by the fire about nurturing home and family
" . . . whoever is kind to the needy honors God." Proverbs 14:31
Does your family do any year-end giving? If so, why not include your kids?
Here's an idea for nurturing a giving spirit in your family:
Make a List of Non-Profits
In our family, we compile a master list of Christian ministries and charitable organizations we would like to give to. My husband and I research and have confidence in the integrity of each one. We print a copy of this list for each member of our family. At the bottom, we always include a spot for "Other" in case someone has another non-profit they would like to support.
Determine the Amount
We then determine the amount of our total year-end donation and split it between each family member. For instance, a $2,000 year-end donation in a family of four would give each person $500 to donate. (Give your kids the option to include their own funds in this as well.)
Include the Whole Family
Each family member prayerfully reviews the list and allocates funds to the ministries/organizations of his or her choice. After all the sheets are turned in, we tally the results and report the total amounts designated for each non-profit. It's really fun to see what your kids choose . . . gives you a picture into their hearts. This year our son wrote in a donation to the Humane Society (on the "Other" line) from our dog Suubi.
Year-end giving provides a great opportunity to teach children about:
- Compassion
- Using personal resources responsibly
- The joy and beauty of giving
- Recognizing the needs of others (i.e., "it's not about me")
- Being a "light" in a dark world as a family unit
If you're looking for organizations to give to, here are a few that are precious to us. (Of course, there are many others we love as well, but I don't have room to list them all!):
As Our Own
"As Our Own is a Christ-based, community-driven movement in India that rescues vulnerable children from certain enslavement and exploitation, caring for them as our own."
Click here for statistics on orphans and s-x trafficking in India and here for a photo album of a child's path into slavery. This world-wide crisis is absolutely heartbreaking and an evil we all need to battle.
Kanakuk Institute
The Kanakuk Institute equips men and women with Biblical skills for a lifetime of ministry. Amazing is all I can say! What this ministry is doing is so desperately needed in our world today.
Kids Across Africa Camps
Kids Across Africa Camps enables and equips the youth of Rwanda by teaching them life skills, self-confidence and leadership through experiential learning. As they work with youth - and in partnership with churches - they are aiding in the continued restoration and healing of Rwanda.
Watoto Child Care Ministries
Watoto is a holistic care program that was initiated in response to the overwhelming number of orphaned children and vulnerable women in Uganda. Their purpose is to rescue individuals and raise each one as a leader so they will in turn rebuild their nation.
Danita's Children (Hope for Haiti Children's Center)
Danita's Children rescues, loves, and cares for orphans and impoverished children. This ministry is incredibly legit in their love for Christ and the sweet children of Haiti.
Joplin Tornado Relief
Joplin is courageously rebuilding, but there is still tremendous need there! Now you can help Joplin and receive an amazing tax credit as well. Missouri residents and businesses are eligible to receive a direct reduction on their Missouri taxes. I believe there's a federal tax incentive as well. For an example of how a $10,000 donation could ultimately cost only $3,000, visit:
http://joplincc.com/businessrecovery/
Donations can be sent to:
JACCF (Joplin Area Chamber of Commerce Foundation)
320 East 4th Street
Joplin, MO 64801
College-town Churches
Consider a gift to the church your college student attends. (Churches in college towns provide numerous ministries to college students with very few financial resources coming in.)
Get the word out! Use the comments section or my Facebook page to share links to your favorite ministry.
Warming the World Together . . .
Lisa~
Wednesdays on the Wooded Path - Impacting the World with Compassion
When you travel to a third-world country, the contents of your luggage become pretty darned important.
The packing list for our trip to Uganda, Africa included some critical items: food for our lunches at the work site (no McDonald's or restaurants of any kind in that area); bandannas to protect the backs of our necks from the glaring sun as we worked outdoors in construction; old shoes that could tromp through the red dirt and musenyu (hand-mixed concrete); well-used clothes; sunscreen; and work gloves.
Our flight from Chicago to London was delayed - considerably. In fact, we reached London so late that a Kenya Air representative was waiting at our arrival gate to escort all 20 members of our team to our connecting gate. Because our travel agent had erroneously booked us on two separate round-trip flights (instead of two connecting flights), our luggage was not checked all the way through to Uganda. We would have to pick up our luggage in London and recheck it on the flight to Uganda. The rep from Kenya Air said there wasn't time to retrieve our 38 bags and recheck them. So we bypassed the baggage claim area with his promise to send them to us on the next flight. My stomach felt a tinge of panic - no, it was more like a wave of panic.
Our plane arrived at the Entebbe airport a little after 11:00 p.m. We filed our missing bags report with the ardent hope that they would arrive later that day. Honestly, I was a little skeptical.
Although we had packed immediate essentials into our carry-on bags, the necessities for our workdays were in the missing checked bags. Many of us were wearing flip-flops or sandals that would be completely inadequate for a construction site.
The absence of food for lunch would be especially difficult for the children on our team. We desperately needed those bags.
When we arrived at our hotel, we ran into a sweet group of Tennessee teens who just happened to be constructing a home at the same village. They noticed us checking in sans luggage and heard about our predicament.
On the morning of our first workday, our bags still hadn't shown up. As we walked to the dining room for breakfast, I could hear the Kenya Air rep's promise ringing in my ears. In the dining room our team was feeling a little frustrated and dismayed about our situation. We prayed together and started eating. About that time, the group of teens we had met earlier walked up to us one-by-one and placed shoes, bandannas, sunscreen, work gloves and food on the table where we were sitting. We sat there speechless as each member of their team deposited a gift in the growing pile without saying a word.
Their offering was a real sacrifice. Some of them might not have work gloves or the proper shoes for their workday. Their food supply would now be limited. They would have to ration what they had left or they might not have enough to last the duration of their trip. The teens then prayed with us before we all left for the workday.
We had prayed that God would send our luggage. He provided for us that day by sending a group of teens instead. The actions of these young people remind me of the early Christian churches in the book of Acts in the Bible. "All the believers were one in heart and mind. No one claimed that any of his possessions was his own, but they shared everything they had." Acts 4:32
We experienced God's compassion through those teens and it buoyed us up. That's what we need in the church today. God places us in community with other believers so we can buoy one another up on the challenging waters of "life".
Is there someone in your church who has a need? What can you share with them today to buoy them up?
"And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased." Hebrews 13:16
If you have a story of compassion you'd like to have featured on Wednesdays, submit it to thewarminghouse@gmail.com.
Warming the world together,
Lisa
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